I hear what your saying and agree since what works for me may not work for someone else especially since there are a lot of different hardware options out there.

Debian unstable has been my daily driver for 2 decades and it definitely doesn’t have the same ease of use as Ubuntu but…I also use Ubuntu and Arch and I agree with the OP that Wayland is not close to fully cooked; if your hardware agrees with it then you’re fine but I’ve had multiple Intel and NVIDIA cards that just don’t work with any level of stability, if at all. Like they said Xorg just works and I’m struggling to see the benefit of Wayland as an end-user yet. This is after trying Sway, Hypervisor, Kwin, and some others I’ve forgotten.

I do not use debian but have been using wayland on ubuntu for years without any issues on multiple systems at home and at work. I tried debian a few years ago and it did not agree with me and it had issues so maybe its just debian if you are having issues. I think I’ve tried debian like 3 times over the years and each time it was quickly removed from my system since it felt like a huge step backwards compared to other options and I do not see myself ever trying it again after having such horrible experiences with it.